Feng Shui Romance and RelationshipTips

FENG SHUI ROMANCE & RELATIONSHIP TIPS

When we talk about the Marriage/Relationship sector of the Bagua, it encompasses all our relationships i.e. our relationships with loved ones, children, family, friends, business relationships… even teacher/ pupil relationships.... of course the most important relationships we can have is the relationship we have with ourselves because it is from ourselves that we then go forth and relate to everyone and everything else in the world……having said this though, usually when someone wants to enhance their relationship it is most often to do with their marriage, love life and romance …or lack of it

So how do we address this “romance” issue and what part do you play?

I recommend that before you get started with consciously manifesting your intentions...ask yourself the questions below:

Think about exactly WHAT you want to achieve in your love life?

WHY do you want it?

Is there anything within you that may be blocking you from achieving your goals in this area?

Sometimes people think or say they want something…then wonder why it’s not happening …and sometimes finally realise (perhaps in hindsight) that they themselves have been blocking their so called desired outcome because they actually didn’t really truly want it……..so having established that yes you do really want to be madly in love or whatever then it’s time to take a good look around your home for symbols of what’s really going on….

If you are serious about creating new love energy…then get rid of all negative or blocking symbols and objects for example: photos or objects depicting solitary images, images of people looking away from each other, broken appliances, bird cage for someone who always feels trapped, unhealthy half dead plants, dried flowers, miserable fish in dirty water….symbols of e.g. a cross wife/husband, living amongst the ex’s stuff etc

Also it’s always important to look at the balance of your whole house, not just the Marriage/Relationship sector of the Bagua…

Working with your Floorplan

First of all we can enhance the MARRIAGE area…..make sure there is nothing obviously solitary in this part of the house.

Incidently as a Southern Hemisphere based Feng Shui practitioner, I apply Southern Hemisphere Feng Shui. So if you are standing in your front door looking into your house, the Marriage sector is on your right at the front of the house.

The MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP sector of the Bagua resides in the earth element so use lovely earthy colours here…creams, yellows, oranges , rusts, warm browns, golds etc. Photographs, paintings and objects relating to earth, food, fruit, couples, pairs of things e.g. candles in earthy , pink or fire colours, Mandarin ducks…I love placing two rose quartz crystals together to enhance relationships…actually I was in a house the other day where the couple had been married for many years and although they had their ups and downs…the loving commitment and level of dedication to each other was quite obvious…I noticed that all over their home were pairs of everything…elephants, ducks, cherubs, even Don Quixote and his side kick Pancho Sanchez!

Now let's go to the Master bedroom…. what do we do here? … Troubleshoot for negative Qi or blocks e.g. beams above the marriage bed or even worse...lined up over the middle of the bed symbolically slicing the relationship up. Cure by moving the bed or if that’s not possible then create a canopy with drapery etc..

Make sure there is no negative Qi being generated here by sharp edges slicing up the partnership eg corners of furniture or open door edges while you sleep…all of the above are also bad for your health which detracts from good relationship as well.

How do we enhance the bedroom to improve or attract love and happy relationships?

Enhance your bedroom just like we do in the Marriage sector of the Bagua, use Fire colours for love and passion e.g. reds & golds and or Watery colours eg dark blue for enhancing your sex life. Make sure that there are objects like matching bedside tables and lamps.

In Feng Shui, FIRE relates to the heart which is symbolises love and WATER relates to sexual energy, intimacy and pregnancy.

What about attracting a soul mate?

This technique can be used to attract a relationship and also enhance the relationship you are already in. Just remember that we attract to us that which we tend to emanate e.g. if we are completely broke and our life is a mess….it can be difficult to attract someone successful and together…we need to work on ourselves to become what we aspire to in life….

So ….describe your ideal relationship or soul mate in words by writing it on a piece of red paper and place it underneath your pillow.