SURRENDER - it's such a relief!

What do you do...?

When you reach a point of such desperation and frustration, it seems as if nothing is working and you don’t know what to do anymore?

When no one seems to have the answers (even though they say they do), least of all you.

When you are weary to the bone. Body and Soul weary.

When you’ve prayed, meditated, invoked, released, detached, toxed, detoxed, chanted, made offerings, journalled, danced, pranced, taken up hobbies, listened to untold audio programmes, read more books and forgiven more people (including yourself) than you care to remember.

When you have tried every kind of positive thought, every kind of manifestation technique you know, seen endless therapists, attended workshops, retreated, contributed, laughed, cried, partied.... and still …not only does peace elude you but visitors like angst, sadness, grief, pain, anxiety or depression still lurk around corners waiting to ambush your life, your heart.

When you’ve tried some or none of the above but whatever it is, you just don’t feel good. Deep down something’s not right.

When mostly your life is good, even great. Then how come every so often you are faced with a dark night of the soul that goes on way longer than 12 hours!

When existence feels like a low grade virus (that no one can detect) and it’s eating away at your happiness.

When negativity forces its ugly demands upon your mind…twisting and churning you this way and that, sending waves of unhappiness that sometimes threaten and swamp you…even when deep down you know that all this negativity does not seem right…that surely this funk can’t be your natural state…?

What to do?

Ok...take a deep breath…everything’s gonna be alright. No matter what kind of dark place you are in……there is light to be found. There is a way out…it’s called

SURRENDER

…and by the way…SURRENDER isn’t just for when you are in the dark places…it’s brilliant for every single day at any time in any place!

Following is a pathway to SURRENDER which is just so simple and it’s awesome. I use the name God but it can be Creator, Great Spirit, Divine Universe, Heavenly MotherFather etc, just use whatever works for you:

Ask God to help you SURRENDER whatever it is in your life that is causing you pain, isn’t working, when you can’t find the solution etc. Here are some phrases to help you find a good way to word your prayer:

“God please help me to SURRENDER e.g. my depression, sadness, pain, anger, confusion, unhappiness, grief, suffering, negative thoughts, fear etc. I hand it all to you as you already know what I need”
or

“God you know what I need regarding (state the issue or situation). I SURRENDER it all to you now and open myself up to receive your solution at the appropriate time.”
or

“God I need help with e.g. finding a solution to my relationship, work, health, finances, desire for a soul mate, living space etc. I SURRENDER it to you now as you know what’s best for me”.

Now all you need to do is BREATHE.

Breathe in LOVE and exhale darkness. Do this 2 to 3 times. Do it whenever you feel like it but especially when you are not feeling ok. Every so often call in the Violet Flame of purification to sweep through you and cleanse you of everything that has been released and needs to be transmuted.

As for me, when I wake in the morning, I immediately SURRENDER anything that currently requires surrendering including my Divine Purpose. Then I breathe in love and exhale darkness. From time to time throughout the day I do the breathing process and cleanse with the Violet Flame once or twice a day.

Guess what…miraculous solutions and opportunities have been arriving at my doorstep. Small things and big things. I always acknowledge and give thanks for their arrival:)

I am trusting in the process and find that SURRENDERING and BREATHING seems to replace all “scrambling after outcomes”. My mind is clearer and I feel happier inside. Life is flowing better and it’s easier to live naturally in the present without necessarily knowing all the answers, without everything being anything other than exactly as it is in the moment. Life is always changing no matter what we “do”. I still do my share of contributing to manifestation in my life, for example when I need to gather numbers of people for a workshop, I SURRENDER it all to God then get on with the process of marketing the workshop.

The great thing is, results start to occur almost straight away…truly. I share this with you because I experienced and continue to experience this grace and am deeply humbled by it. Spiritual gold has been struck and the supply is an unlimited mother lode! Feel free to share it around :)